Are You Bringing Your Best Self- Stand up and Stand out

For some people it is a burden to stand out, 

they work their best,

 to blend in with the rest
It is more convenient in the short term 

to be in the majority, but it is far more complicated 

when choosing to break away 

and become an individual.

Stand up and stand out, 

you have your own light. 

You do not need to stand in the light of others to shine.

On the contrary, though even stars are grouped and shine in constellations, they each shine individually.

When you begin to gain knowledge of yourself and all your abilities. You begin to see what sets you apart from others.

A set apart nation, will stand out no matter where they are placed in life.

We set ourselves apart by creating and sticking to protocols.

Procedures and rules set in place that define us.

We distinctly stand out, because the protocol requires us to STAND UP!

Protocol for one, as an example, could be every morning waking up doing 30 squats, 50 push ups,. 100 sit ups, and drinking a cup of water.

These habits alone help to make them an individual.

These also being good, healthy habits, that will, over the course of time begin to separate them from those who do none of the habits.

What will tweek you and give you an edge?

What can you place in your resume, that will make you stand out from all other candidates?

Even when it comes to relationships, there are many "bad b****", also ballers, there are many freaks, many women who cook good, many men with "swag" but what makes you significant enough, to be someones significant other?

Loving them through thick and thin, should be a law and protocol.

Picking them up when they are down.

Massaging them or rubbing their back after a long day of work.

Encouraging as they deal with tough, personal situations that no one else may even know about.

Can you keep all their secrets?

Can they tell you anything, without you judging them?

Can you except all their weaknesses and insecurities ad never call them out and draw attention to them?

These qualities will stand out in any individual.

It is so easy to give up on people, that is petty and mediocre.

To stick it out all the way until a person is their finished product and to help them become their greater self, is a gift of GOD to be a part of.

If no one wants to stand out, then no one will truly have the star power that they were blessed with to leave a positive imprint on this world.

Some one who has knowledge of self may intimidate others into subconsciously being jealous and threatened by their confidence and inner freedom.

This is completely natural, because people have been trained and conditioned to look less of themselves so they cant fathom someone tapping into their Christ consciousness.

Christ consciousness ---- " Higher consciousness is the consciousness of a higher Self, transcendental reality, or God. It is "the part of the human being that is capable of transcending animal instincts". The concept was significantly developed in German Idealism, and is a central notion in contemporary popular spirituality."

Once haters assume you are "overconfident" or cocky, they will not be satisfied until they see you humbled or brought low.

They can hear nothing but good things about you and your demeanor and lie in wait for the day they can hear one statement that can diminish your character.

This too is completely natural, thats why to stand out is to stand up.

When you stand up you are willing to face all that comes with not just sitting down and allowing life to toss you around.

You have control.

No one has the power to use you.

You have the power to cut them off, imagine that,

someone thinks they have you wrapped around their finger 

and then BOOM!!! 

You do get fed up and decide at that moment, "NO MORE!"

Imagine what state of mind that person will be left in.

No matter how unappreciative they seemed,

you had become their, arms, and legs, now that you have separated yourself, how will they get around and handle things.

Something to think about.

So instead of feeling used, feel as if a person depends on you and your power.

Isn't that a more positive way to look at it.

Instead of being angry and feeling used or manipulated, 

begin to help them not be dependent on you, because you are doing them the misfortune of handicapping them.

If you are great or if you know how great you can be,

begin practicing being great in all things you do.

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Are You Bring Your Best Self- Encourage Yourself

Encourage Yourself

No Matter how good you are or great you are, some people can not and will not ever accept you

You can not force these people to like or accept you

If they do not like you, you must realize their opinion, thoughts, and energy do not matter.

You must know the intentions of those around you but most of all have the best intentions for your own life.

Encourage is defined as giving support, confidence, or hope to some one.

Also to give support or advice to someone so they will do or continue to do something.

How many people in this world can you count, that are encouraging you on a day to day basis?

Encouraging you to be a better you, encouraging you to not give up on yourself, encouraging you to continue to grow, or even encouraging you to try to love again.

Not many?

Well if you are blessed with a circle of many people who consistently make it their effort to encourage you then you have a spiritual family that you should be thankful and grateful for.

With that team of people providing you with confidence and positive energy, it is nothing that you can't do and achieve, if you put your mind to it and believe.

Yet, this is the real world and my blogs must deal with solutions to REAL life problems

In all honesty life is filled with a lot of fake love, ill intentions, guarded hearts, and attention seekers.

It can even be fake encouragement also

Some people may encourage you to go in the wrong direction

Encourage you to be dishonest.

Also, it may be many in the social media, who will encourage you with likes or excessive attention.

Do not let fake encouragement go to your head, just like you shouldn't let people who try to discourage you get in your head.

How Great would it sound to hear, family, friends, or even GOD himself say, "KEEP UP THE GOOd WORK?"

Those are words you may rarely hear, and if you hear them you may even feel as if they were used in sarcasm.

Yet, these are words and affirmations you must consistently tell yourself, to continue in striving for perfection, in your day to day endeavors and also in your demeanor if you are planning on doing work for GOD.

If you find yourself in a position in life where you are being drained, of all your positive energy, and hope; continue to exercise, pray and practice affirmations in your life.

Encourage yourself and push yourself, you will always find sooner or later that it is indeed always a solution and way out or every problem and situation.

I do not write blogs to receive praise from others, or even encouragement to continue to write blogs.

I have learned to look within to be encouraged.

I write blogs to encourage others, and also no matter how many views, likes, or shares I get, I understand I AM SUCCESSFUL because I made the effort, to plant a seed, and I am consistent at watering it and watching it grow.

With every follower I do gain, it is growth and progress.

I do not wish to RUSH anything I this life, I would rather pay attention to detail, and exercise patience.

In taking my time, from week to week, month to month, and year to year, it should be recognizable evolution in my blogs, writing skill, and lifestyle.

God Bless all the readers, followers, and subscribers.

Don't Give Away Your Power, The Power to be the best YOU is CONFIDENCE

Don't Give Away Your Power, The Power to be the best YOU

Give no one the power over the entity of You.

I describe you as a two completely separate entities because if YOU are in control of your thoughts, emotions, and feelings; You will operate better and also be more appeased in your outlook on the world.

Yet, if you allow the power of your emotions, thoughts, and feelings to be controlled by others; they have the power and hold the key to destroying your happiness, and also, devouring and consuming the aspiration of having a Great day or being a Great person, because if they don't make you feel Great, you won't feel you are great or can be great at whatever it is you are trying to do.

This feeling of not being accepted as great or always trying to impress others will transform you into a people pleaser.  A people pleaser is to busy trying to please others and satisfy people, not realizing people will never be satisfied.
If GOD can't satisfy people, why drive your self mad trying to satisfy everyone all the time.
Some people set out to please other people.
Some people wish only to please themselves.
Some people seek to please GOD.
I judge neither of the three,
but I know which one's are the happiest,
after accomplishing their goal.

A people pleaser will give away the one thing they need to be great.
CONFIDENCE.
Without confidence, they lack the ability to believe in their self.
Other's may not believe they can complete a task, so it destroys their project from the root.
They will struggle with the insecurity of DOUBT.
Doubt is like a demon with many friends.
Once one doubt sets in, failure and lack of trying set in.

You must balance between pleasing others and doing what pleases you, to me that seems pleasing to GOD and seems WISE.

If you spend your whole life only wanting others to please you, you will wear them out.  You will run them off and drive them away.
You will drain all the energy they have and will destroy them.

If you spend your whole life trying to please others, the stress alone may kill your spirit.
In the end, no one will be pleased with you, because you aren't pleased with yourself.
What can you say that you have accomplished.

Even GOD judges the WORK of individuals.
Whose work are you doing.
If you only work for others all your life, are you doing your work for GOD, or their work for GOD.
Are you living your dreams or someone else dreams.
Are you waking up living in your world,
or are you just existing in other's worlds until
they cast you out for having nothing of your own
because you gave all of YOU AWAY.

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Staying True to WHO? How to Stay True to One's GREATEST SELF

I understand most people keep it true to they self,
because if they changed for better, they'd seem brand new to themselves.

I grew up, influenced by a Grambling state of mind,
If I did not stand alone, I would still be in a life of crime.

You must understand, Life is about sharing, not giving or taking.
Realizing that some people give too much of themselves and receive so little in return.
On flip side, others take, take, take, and are never satisfied, yet have nothing to give.
To share is a balance between the two.

In Ecclesiates, Chapter 7 verses 16-18 it states "So don't destroy yourself by being too good, or acting too smart!  Don't die before your time by being too evil or acting like a fool.  Keep to the middle of the road.  You can do this if you truly respect GOD."

Seems to me people that give all they have to people undeserving are destroying themselves by being too good.  Acting too smart by overthinking their position they are needed to fulfill.  Maybe in some way feeling that giving all they have is serving their divine purpose, yet in the end they have nothing for themselves and have spread themselves too thin.

Keep to the middle of the road.  Be balanced.  Truly have integrity and trust and RESPECT GOD.

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It is my goal in life, to be true to my greater self.
I have began I life of research and education.
In order for me to be a better me and the greatest me I can be, I
must continue to develop my mind.

With great hope, for the future I will share my
research and also experiences
through blogging, social media, vlogging
and also books.

These books will not just be based upon my bias opinions, due to my race,
location, religious background, or gender.

It will be based upon, sound scripture and also
through extensive and timely research,
to fully understand the human being and how we work together
and achieve greatness on a strive towards perfect harmony and oneness.

One of my primary goals, is to shift from the bad habits of sin, into the routine of wise sound habits
that produce prosperity.

Striving each and every day to become our fullest selves, and honestly examining ourselves and our true intentions and motives.

Realize that anything that is unnaturally excessive in a persons behavior or emotions suggest faulty elements in their lifestyle.

As we study and share our knowledge we can become, greater, fuller, and more refined people.
That will truly enhance, the quality of life.   (Alfred Adler, Understanding Human Nature)

Currently, I am reading Understanding Human Nature, by Alfred Adler
along with many other books, I will also site and give reference too.

Please follow, share, and tune in to the process and progress
of an anointed goal digger.

A goal digger whose goal is to dig deep inside the psyche of human kind
and spark a self-evident change
in the nation.

Beginning with one's self and thorough self examination.

Holding one's self accountable and under scrutiny.

"Life is about courageous striving not achieving perfection.  Perfection is condition with no future.  Life is about movement from minus to plus." ~Understanding Human Nature

And I discovered that wisdom is better than foolishness, just as light is better than darkness.  Wisdom is like having two good eyes: foolishness leaves you in the dark.  

(Ecc 2:13,14)

So don't destroy yourself by being too good or acting too smart!  Don't die before your time by being too evil or acting like a fool.

Keep to the middle of the road.  You can do this if you truly respect GOD.

(Ecc. 7:16,17,18)

I pray GOD will keep you so happy, that you won't have time to worry about each day.

(Ecc 5:20)